The festive season is here again, a time for giving, sharing, and creating connections. While grand celebrations and gifts are part of the holiday tradition, it’s often the small, thoughtful gestures that leave the biggest impact. In Nigeria, where community spirit and love are at the heart of our culture, the opportunities to spread kindness this season are endless.
Hereunder are 10 simple, yet powerful ways to bring joy to someone’s heart this Yuletide:
1. Share Your Smile
There’s something magical about a genuine smile, it can brighten even the busiest Lagos street or calm the tension of traffic in Port Harcourt. Whether you’re in a local market or strolling through your neighborhood, flash a smile. It’s free, but its value is priceless.
2. Compliment Someone
A kind word costs nothing but can mean everything. Tell a friend how much you appreciate them, thank a colleague for their hard work, or even compliment a stranger’s outfit. Nigerians love heartfelt words, and your kind gesture could make someone’s day.
3. Pay It Forward
The next time you’re buying suya or boli, why not pay for the person behind you? Or leave a little extra with your roadside zobo vendor to cover the next customer. These surprises are small ways to spread the joy of the season.
4. Surprise Someone with a Gift
Thoughtful gifts don’t have to be expensive. A bag of chin-chin, a bottle of zobo, or even a simple recharge card can make someone feel special. It’s not about how much you spend but about the thought behind it.
5. Volunteer Your Time
Many orphanages, schools, and communities host special Christmas events. Offer your time to cook, serve, or simply spend time with children and the elderly. These moments of connection remind us of the true meaning of the season.
6. Write a Thoughtful Note
Sometimes, the simplest words are the most powerful. Send a ‘Thank-You’ text to your housekeeper, write a holiday card to your gatekeeper, or leave a note for a loved one. A few heartfelt lines can warm even the coldest of hearts.
7. Donate to Those in Need
The festive season is a perfect time to give back. Donate food items like rice or beans to a local charity, church, or mosque. Even a small contribution can make a big difference for families in need.
8. Appreciate Everyday Heroes
The ‘keke’ rider who gets you to work safely, the security guard who keeps watch over your building, or the cleaner who ensures your workspace is tidy; they all deserve some holiday cheer. A small token, like a bottle of soft drink or a festive tip, can show your gratitude.
9. Reach Out to the Lonely
Not everyone finds the holiday season joyful. Some may be grieving or far from loved ones. Call that old friend, visit your elderly neighbour, or check in on someone who might feel forgotten. Sometimes, your presence or voice is the greatest gift you can give.
10. Support Local Businesses
From ‘aso ebi’ to decorations, consider shopping from local artisans and markets this season. When you support small businesses, you’re not just buying products, you’re helping families thrive during the festive rush.
The beauty of kindness is that it doesn’t need to be grand to be meaningful. Whether it’s a smile, a small gift, or a helping hand, every act of love adds to the joy of the season. As we celebrate, let’s remember that it’s not the decorations or parties that truly make the holidays special, it’s the connections we build and the lives we touch. Kindness doesn’t have to be elaborate to be impactful.
This Yuletide, be the reason someone smiles. Spread love, share joy, and make the season unforgettable for those around you.